They’re a person who really wants to make you happy and to be with you, and you feel bad for hurting them over something they can’t control now.Say these words to them: “I’m sorry, the more I like you it just gets hard for me to think about your sexual past.He’s been texting you for a few days since your last date, and then, POOF. Accept that he has ghosted you, and make sure to stop contacting him altogether. Is there anything else you would add to help others recover from being ghosted? If he posts something on social media, don’t throw shade. If ghosting weren’t bad enough, he didn’t even realize the fault of his actions and how they affected you! It’s just been bothering me lately, but I’m working through it.I’m sorry for being so snippy.” Approach the discussion as if this was completely your problem, not theirs…. And now you’ve got only a faceless sea of everyone else to potentially date.
If you let all of your hurt, anger, and sense of injustice build up inside of you, you’re going to take it out on them whether you intend to or not. You’ll get irritable and won’t tell them what’s wrong.
Their sudden righteous anger will turn your virginity into something that you’re holding over their head; they’ll stop valuing it and respecting you for it as much.
On the other hand, if they start feeling guilty about their past, then they didn’t deserve the beating you gave them.
Ghosting is a dating phenomenon in this day in age, and no one wants to be ghosted, but hey, it happens.
Ghosting is the action of literally taking no action in ending a relationship. Text him to make sure everything’s still cool between you two.