If it bothers you maybe try and do things to make you feel a bit better, pamering etc. I am another, it is awful because people think the norm is the other way around.
(im overweight myself and have joined slimming world to try and make myself feel more attractive! My short answer to you IMO is a sexless marriage can only work if both arent bothered.
During my pregnancy he totally refused even when I cried.
However there is a quite enormous issue of difference in sex drive.
You are certainly not alone with this issue - it is a very common factor which is posted about on Netmums. HI Anon, I am so glad to read other people have problems, I feel quite jealous of the women who have their OH asking for sex!
We get on great, we have lots of laughs as a couple and as a family, we pretty much agree on everything, from the way we are raising the kids to the way this country is run, we kiss and cuddle a lot, and tell each other we love each other at least once a day...... Only we barely have sex, (his choice), we havent had sex at all this year and i think we only had sex about 5 tims throughout the whole of last year. If i were you id sit him down and tell him how its bothering you!
I had heard about him from our mutual friends and i heard about various girlfriends he had, so it must just be me that he finds it hard to get intimate with as i am very over weight and not very attractive. your not asking for much, not like every night haha!